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How Do I Handle My Aging Parent Who:
Wants all my time and attention?
Makes constant unreasonable demands?
Is inflexible, critical and negative?
Complains about real or imagined physical symptoms?
Exhibits bizarre behavior and uses inappropriate/foul language?
Has become suspicious and paranoid?
Is experiencing increasing levels of memory loss?
Makes up silly lies, exaggerates and cries wolf?
Prefers to stay in bed or do nothing—“waiting to die”?
Refuses to allow a cleaning person into their home?
Gets furious if something doesn’t happen at a specific time?
Gets mad when told “no” they can’t do something?
Wants to eat constantly or only wants to eat the same thing?
Refuses to take showers and change their underclothes?
Is a danger on the road but refuses to give up driving?
Needs but refuses to allow any caregiving help in the home?
Can no longer take proper care of their bills and finances?
Refuses to see any other doctor but is not getting adequate care?
Needs to see a psychiatrist but absolutely refuses to go?
Acts completely normal and charming in front of others?
Fakes illness at the Day Care to avoid staying?
Is driving me crazy as I try to deal with all their problems?
Has pushed me to feelings of resentment and guilt?
Cannot be reasoned with when they go into an illogical rage?
Is completely unmanageable and needs to be placed in a home?
If you ever though you were alone in the world of caregiving -- especially if one of your parents is suffering from symptoms of dementia -- you're guaranteed to find a few chuckles here that let you know that someone else has traveled the road you're on -- and has fallen into may of the same potholes.
A riveting, often humorous, non-fiction novel that chronicles televison executive Jacqueline Marcell's trials and tribulations, and eventual success at managing the care of her aging parents. Also an extensive self-help guide with valuable resources and solutions for effective management, medically and behaviorally, of challenging elders who resist care.
Includes an addendum by renowned dementia specialist, Rodman Shankle, MS MD: A Physician’s Guide to Treating Dementia. Valuable for everyone from the family to the physician. Required reading at four universities for geriatric assessment and management.
The mission of the book is to "spread the word about the importance of early diagnosis to the 77 million baby boomers who are so often in denial about eldercare until they are in a crisis." With the proper treatment, dementia symptoms might be masked and slowed down by 2-5 years, keeping a person in Stage One longer, which is intermittent and mild. Seeking help early can save families a lot of heartache and money, and save our society the burden of caring for so many elders who decline sooner than need be.
Elder Rage is also an extensive self-help book with answers to difficult "how to" questions like: getting obstinate elders to give up driving, accept a caregiver, see a different doctor, go to day care, move to a new residence--and includes a wealth of valuable resources, websites and recommended reading.
BOOK CONTENT
If It Isn't Ten Things—It's Twenty
I’ve Seen Fire and I’ve Seen Rain Drops Fallin’ on My Head
Cries and Careless Whispers
Reality Bites the Hell Outta Ya
Just a Little “R-E-S-P-E-C-T” When I Come Home
Le Miserable
Hyde Strung In Plain Sight
What’s It All About, Jackie
Losing My Religion
As the Wounded Turn
One Life to Live-or-Two Minds to Lose
My Little Gang of Rascals
Phantom Menace of the Old Folk’s Farm
Do Not Back Up: Severe Life Damage
And Then Came Mom
Penny Wise and Pounds of Foolish Fiddlers
Grouch-Ohhh!
Demented Times Require Desperate Measures
Honey, I Blew Up The House
Shock It to Me
Fred and Wilma Moved to Green Acres
The Man From U.N.Believable
Look Who’s Talking Now
Miss Judge What Your County Can Do For You
Jacqueline, You Ignorant Slut
Good Morning, Vietnam
And Then Along Came Something About Mary Jo
I’m Steppin’ Into the Third Dementia
I Remember Mama Said There’d Be Months Like This
In a Oh-My-Goddadivida, Honey
I’m Dreamin’ of a Wishful Christmas
More Nonsense and Responsibilities
If This Table Could Talk
Nurture and Nature Messed Him Up
The Way They Were © Grumpier Old Men Was a Documentary
It Shoulda, Coulda, Woulda Been a Wonderful Life
Merrily, Merrily, Life Is But a Scream
Mending Shattered Fences
Too Good to Be True Lies-or-Dared Consequences
I’m Mad as Hell and I’m Not…
That’s Me in the Spotlight
Fugitives From Injustice
He Ought to Be in Pictures Worth a Thousand Words
Star Searching For Sanity-or-All My Caregivers
The Price of the Prejudice
The Old and the Restless
Midsummer’s Nightmare at the Alamo
Enter Terri
May the Driving Force Be With You
Long Day’s Journey Into Nightmares
Clear and Present Danger: The Hospital
Joined at the Hip
Amazing Ariana
Oh What a Wangeld Web We Weave
The Hardest Working Maniac in Show Business
Pros and Cons
Once an Adult, Twice a Child
Old Age Is Not For Cry Babies
Still Crazy After All These Years
Liar Liar, Pants on Fire
Unsolved Maniac Mysteries
Gentle, Dependable, Overnight Disbelief
Even Ripley Won’t Believe It
Friends and Family Matters Most
Desperately Seeking Sanity
The Three Faces of Jacqueline
The Outer Limits of Suspected Belief
I’m All Outta Whole Lotta Love
I’d Rather Donate a Kidney… To Oprah
Gullible's Travels-or-Small Balls of Fire
Bound and Gagged By Honor
Two, Two, Two Minds in One
Abbott and Costello Meet Jakell & Hyde
In the Heat of the Day For Night
Relative Relativity-or-Tommy Can You Hear Me Now?
The Greatest Story I Ever TOLD YOU SO
Achy Breaky Heart of Hearts
Unwanted: Dead or Alive
Bound on Broadway
What a Long Strange Trip Its Been
Hyde Risk Behavior
Born to Be Just a Wild and Crazy Guy
To Be Demented or Deceptive? That Was The Question
How to Earn a Ph.D. at Home
Ahhh, Hindsight—It’s Always 20/20, Barbara
Appendix
Behavior Modification Guidelines
When a Difficult Elder Displays Good Behavior:
Verbal Praise, Loving Physical Affection, Edible Treats, Special Activity, Special Attention, Gold Stars Chart.
When a Difficult Elder Displays Negative Behavior:
Verbal Commands, Time-Outs, Three Strikes, Shame, Remove Specific Privileges/Charts, Call the Police.
Long Term Care Insurance
Alzheimer's Disease
Epilog
A Physician’s Guide to Treating Aggression in Dementia
By Rodman Shankle, MS, MD, Specialist in Dementia
Conclusion
Jacqueline’s Ten Step Program
Hope For the Future -- What We Know So Far
Omenntum Transposition Surgery
Search for a Cure
What You Can Do to Help
Valuable Resources
Recommended Reading